Summer Camp or Manual Labor? Why These Teens Are Choosing To Spend Their Summers Building Instead of Relaxing
Teens are doing a lot these days, and it’s really inspiring. I know a lot of people like to talk about how kids are entitled or spoiled or just eating tide-pods, and while those kids are definitely out there, there’s a huge other group of kids who are invested in making this world a better place. There’s a group of teens in Lodi involved in a program called the Sierra Service Project, or SSP. When I tell you these kids are amazing, I really mean it. We have really, really great kids right here in Lodi, dedicating themselves to making lives better for people they don’t even know. SSP is a Christian nonprofit organization where youth dedicate a week of their summer to service projects. In Lodi, it’s the teens at the First United Methodist Church (FUMC) who are part of SSP. So instead of going to a typical summer camp, these kids spend a week building things, mostly housing improvements for low income families across West coast. This year FUMC is sending 14 kids plus 4 adult counselors to San Diego to work on these projects. If you’re like me, and you’re wondering how much the kids will actually be doing. Believe it or not, these kids are putting in some serious manual labor. Of course they’ll be helping with the more cosmetic updates like paint, but they’re also getting trained to use power tools so they can actually be contribute the structural improvements also.
“You want to help and you want to finish the project and you want to do a good job.”- Shaylee, 17
Three of the kids who are going this year are Shaylee (17), Sidnee (16), and Trevor (15) and they’re really excited. “It’s very involved and you have to be able to work with other people and everyone is super friendly so it makes it super easy. You have to be willing to learn and want to work,” shared Shaylee. “After you meet the homeowners you hear their story and what they want done and the reason they want it done. Then you want to help and you want to finish the project and you want to do a good job.” Teens get a chance to talk with the people the project will benefit and find out why their work is so meaningful. The “Why” is such an important motivator for anyone embarking on a project. It’s especially important for youth who normally don’t have the years of experience as most adults. And thanks to this approach of talking with the people benefitting from these projects, the kids have a lot more empathy and understanding than, I think, most adults.
According to Sidnee, last year her group built a shed. The project is broken down into a few weeks, so several groups contribute to the same project. Last year her group came during the project’s second week. The group from the first week had already built the shed’s foundation, and her group would be building up from that foundation. It was Sidnee’s first year, and she was thinking probably the same thing I would have been thinking: “My mindset last year was, ‘I don’t wanna go, it’s gonna be hot.’ I was so anti it and everyone was telling me, ‘You have to go, you have to go.’ And I was like I don’t want to, but then I finally went and it was so much fun… I get a sense of I have so much more privilege than some of these people. They don’t have a lot, so it’s nice to give back. I feel like I’m learning something and giving back.” Reminder, Sidnee is 16 years old. Trevor, 15, agreed. “The sense of reward and achievement is very unique. It’s one that I have not experienced in anything else.”
“I feel like I’m learning something and giving back.”- Sidnee, 16
I asked Sidnee why she is inspired to give back, and she said “Seeing that people don’t have as much as me. I have a home and I don’t have to worry about the next meal. That was a big eye opener. There’s a whole other community out there that I’ve never seen before.” That’s a really insightful thing for anyone to say, especially for someone in an age group that is often (falsely) criticized for being too self involved. Shaylee chimed in, “ It helps you grow. Through SSP I’ve grown so much and I can see where I learned different characteristics that I have like I gained them from SSP. It’s built me because I’ve gone six years and I want to keep on going.”
This work makes an impact on others and it makes an impact on these teens that they’ll carry with them as they grow into adults. Trevor, Sidnee and Shaylee are really good kids with an ability to empathise with people better than many adults. Raising more loving kids can only benefit our community. This is the impact of getting kids and teens involved and giving them the opportunity to serve. They grow up to be caring adults. As the three of them continued sharing their experience with SSP with me (they really love it and are very excited to return) I asked them if they could change one thing in the world, what would it be? And they all agreed, everyone should have the opportunity to give back. “For everyone to have some type of service, because some people have never served they don’t get the point of why would you want to pay to go somewhere and work and labor. It just makes you feel like such a good human being, and that feeling stays with you for not only just the day after, but that feeling stays with you for a long time, and that’s why you want to go a year from then.” said Shayle. Sidnee agreed. “Yeah, you’ll leave and then be like, ‘oh I miss that, I want to go back.’” Trevor added, “Like last year when we were leaving we were already talking about where we wanted to go next year.” I’m so excited for these teens, and really inspired by them. I look forward to watching how another summer full of these rich experiences impacts who they will be as adults.
Takeaways from talking with these awesome teens:
Giving back makes you feel like a “good human being.”
Giving teens the opportunity to serve others helps them grow into caring, appreciative young adults.
Knowing “why” you’re giving back makes the work you do, no matter what it is, more meaningful.